Essential Travel Tips from Your Local Experts in the Boot: Postcards from Victoria

It has been a while, hasn’t it? After nearly four years (can you believe it?) of witnessing a tremendous surge in tourism, I feel motivated to share some observations and, yes, a few pet peeves.

This post primarily focuses on Italy, but its insights can apply to (over)tourism globally. There’s a plethora of media attention and social media content, much of which can be misleading, failing to capture the true realities or offering practical travel advice.

We see plenty of beautiful images and far too many selfies (don’t even get me started on “influencers”!), alongside high-pressure promotions about “the best,” “the most,” and “secret destinations.” It’s baffling how “secret” locations are being revealed! Do we really need pseudo-experts providing so-called “insider tips”?

Moreover, there’s been notable pushback from local communities in various countries (for instance, with water pistols in Barcelona) and Venice is now raising its “day visit” fees while limiting group sizes. I anticipate even more measures will be implemented soon.

The terms “revenge tourism,” “rude tourism,” and “over tourism” resonate deeply with many, including myself! It’s simply disrespectful and appalling to scratch your name into the Colosseum or Pompeii’s walls, water ski in the canals of Venice, picnic on church steps, fill your water bottle from the Trevi Fountain, spray graffiti on ancient structures, or pose atop historical statues for a selfie.

I’ve noticed an array of oblivious behaviors while exploring, which irritate me more and more. Thus, I’ve compiled a list of these behaviors, and here it is.

It’s NEVER EVER “OKAY” to…

NEVER… wear workout or beach attire in public unless you’re headed to the gym, jogging, or relaxing at the beach! We’ve seen too much already. Perhaps take a moment to reflect on your attire before heading out? Dress appropriately!

Get the most from your visit!

NEVER… block sidewalks while you’re focused on your smartphone or having a conversation! Keep in mind that people live here – be aware of your surroundings!

NEVER… sit on curbs or stairs in public spaces, especially areas of worship, while eating, drinking, or using your smartphone. It’s public space! (Just because others do it doesn’t make it acceptable!)

NEVER… leave trash (empty bottles, wrappers, etc.) lying around. Can’t find a bin? Hold on to it until you locate one.
(And to all the Airbnb guests, please STOP leaving trash by doorways or on the streets! There are specific days and locations designated for disposal. Would you do that at home?)

NEVER… buy cheap knock-offs made “somewhere else.” Support local businesses and artisans. Aim for authentic “Made in Italy” products! (And definitely avoid street vendors!)

NEVER… be rude, disrespectful, condescending, or entitled.

NEVER… expect last-minute availability for tickets – there’s no longer a true “off” or “low” season, only varying levels of high season.
I can’t express how often I observe visitors feeling upset or disappointed simply because they didn’t plan ahead!
Don’t complain if you come unprepared!

NEVER… treat locations like they’re theme parks (unless it indeed is a theme park)!

I see people entering churches and basilicas as if they are shops! Taking photos, speaking loudly, and dressing inappropriately. No! If it were your place of worship, how would you feel?

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NEVER… be addicted to selfies! UGH! (And just because it’s on Instagram doesn’t mean it’s the “best”!)

NEVER… assume everyone speaks English.
Travelers from around the globe visit Italy – it’s unrealistic to expect locals to know every language! In larger cities, most people understand English (especially in hospitality/tourism), but it’s not always the case in smaller towns.

And there are a few things you should ALWAYS remember…
Courtesy and respect are timeless!

ALWAYS… remember you are a guest!
Learn about local culture, history, and traditions. Italians are known for their warmth and hospitality – they take great pride in their country and history, and love to share it. Consider how you would want a visitor to behave in your hometown or your home.

ALWAYS… follow rules and signs in places like museums, churches, etc. (e.g., no flash photography, no food or drinks, no pets, etc.)

Pay attention to the SIGNS!

ALWAYS… research and prepare BEFORE your trip! You’ve invested your resources ($$), now invest your time! This will enrich your experience. It’s quite embarrassing to hear some of the stories shared by tour guides.

ALWAYS… be aware of your surroundings – and please use a physical map instead of relying solely on GPS. Do some planning before you leave your accommodation.

ALWAYS… consult the advice of local experts and seasoned travelers, and take flashy online articles with skepticism (better yet, just keep scrolling).

ALWAYS… learn a few Italian phrases and use them.

♦ And ALWAYS…read my book and travel tips! ♦